The Gift of Permanent Makeup: The Healing Power of Loving the
Way You Look
By Dawn Willard
Poet,
artist and philosopher Kahlil Gibran wrote in his book The
Prophet “Beauty is life when life unveils her holy
face. But you are the life and you are the veil. Beauty is eternity
gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are
the mirror.” In these words he speaks of an age-old human
struggle we have all faced, the struggle to see our own inherent
beauty. Part of the Universal human experience is to learn how
to love, appreciate and enjoy the way we look; our faces and
our bodies are often judged by others when it is only our own
opinion that truly matters. Loving the way you look can be a
spiritual and healing experience, it can change the way you move
and speak. It transforms the energy you project to others.
The Vanity Myth
There are many misconceptions when it comes to the practice
of permanent makeup or cosmetic tattooing. It is the same myth
that pervades the medical field of cosmetic and plastic surgery.
There is a belief in America that if a person engages in procedures
such as permanent eyeliner, permanent lipstick or other cosmetic
changes that they are driven by vanity or are shallow inside.
Although I agree that there is a portion of people who will never
be satisfied with their appearance, I do not believe these people
are the majority. Most of the clients I see in my practice are
men and women who are in the process of learning to love themselves
more and through this process they eventually gain more confidence
and experience a better quality of life.
Let Your Natural Beauty Emerge
There are many reasons to have permanent makeup. Illness, injury
and a desire for practicality, efficiency or increased confidence
are just a few. All of these motivations have less to do with
vanity and more to do with building self-esteem and self-appreciation.
Loving yourself is a healing process and I am lucky to work in
a field where I can participate in this process with my clientele.
I work, not only with their faces but I also connect with their
individual energy. I use my artistic eye for color and symmetry
to apply the permanent cosmetics, but I also access my intuition
in order to see what they see and to understand what they feel
needs to change about their appearance.
A wonderful
example of this process is a former client named Becky, a college
professor and author. “I have looked at
myself in the mirror each day since you did my eyeliner and I
am so happy with what looks back at me, “Becky states, “I
knew I wanted to have the procedure done for esthetics and got
a bonus of enhanced self esteem.” “Thank you for
your artistic, beautiful work that walks around with me everyday,
collecting compliments whenever I reveal my secret,” she
continues. In the end the goal is to create a look that doesn’t
compensate for flaws or imperfections, but enhances what is most
beautiful about the person naturally. Natural beauty exists within
all people and bringing it to the forefront is the key to a great
look. Then each day you look in the mirror to see your best facial
features highlighted. This allows you to walk with your head
high, to feel more comfortable in your own skin and to move forward
in ways you may have avoided n the past.
Believe in Your Own Beauty
To achieve a beauty that you can believe in you must make choices
to enhance the beauty that is already there. Everyone deserves
to leave home feeling confident and excited about their own appearance.
Permanent makeup is not a way to cover up the problems; it is
way to help your best facial qualities and features to emerge.
As you see this previously hidden part of you walk out into the
light of day healing takes place and this healing energy can
spread through the rest of your life. To read more about the
health advantages and practice of permanent makeup visit www.DawnColors.com.